aliena on Instagram: "When we miss people who never truly made us feel loved or safe, it’s not love we’re longing for. It’s the emotional intensity and the pattern. And I know, nostalgia can trick you into remembering only the good, while forgetting out the chaos, the self-doubt and the pain. So you’re allowed to miss the moments and still choose not to return. You’re allowed to feel it all without reopening the door. This is what I talk about in my video “Why You Miss People Who Never Even Made